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A family man
By Tiuniasing | September 10, 2007
A lot of things had changed and will change as time goes by. The change can be from good to bad, or from good to better. No doubt I will always hope for the latter one, from good to better, then from better to the best!! This is what I want, and what I always look forward to. So, I keep changing everyday.
I changed girlfriends very frequently last time because I wanted to look for the one who can be my wife. Finally I have found the one, but that doesn’t stop me from changing myself. Don’t be silly, I don’t mean to change wife here. Then what can I change now?? The answer is, status. It is as simple as from bachelor to married-man, I’m someone’s husband now. On top of that, I’m already someone’s son-in-law, someone’s brother-in-law, this in law, that in law, someone’s uncle, and finally soon-to-be someone’s father.
No, Shino has not pregnant yet. We planned to start working on a baby by November due to some restrictions from the insurance policy. So don’t ask me why anymore, please. November is not far from now, it is only one month away. These few days, I had merely thought about how I will react to Shino when we know about Shino’s pregnancy. I thought about what I have to do when Shino is pregnant. I imagined about the picture when I am sleeping next to my wife, whose stomach will become bigger and bigger from time to time. All this came to me because the time Shino is pregnant not far from now, and I had some good time with my niece-in-law, Bell (my sister-in-law’s daughter) recently. I think Bell likes me quite a lot, that’s why she likes to stick to me when she sees me. I believe Shino will get damn fucking jealous when she reads this later. Hahaa…
Shino and I discussed about the baby issue before, like what language we will speak to our child, what furniture we can buy to reduce the dangers to baby and so on. I find it very tiring to look after baby all day long, seriously. When I am with Shino’s sister’s children, we adults really have no time to rest and sit comfortably on the sofa. We have to keep our eyes on the children to prevent them from falling down, the head from hitting the edges of furniture, and turning the house up-side-down. Frankily speaking, my weekends are very much more tiring than the time I go to work. But I am happy to be tired when I get to see Bell.
We attended a gathering organised by her colleages in Cheras. Most of Shino’s colleagues are married with children and it looks very much like a babies gathering to me. The atmosphere was so warm and full of loveliness; You carried his baby, I carried your baby, she carries his babies and things like that!! Luckily they still can recognise and carry back their own baby after such a messy ‘mixture’ among the babies.
Last time, I thought about which girl to date on the coming weekend, what I should do to get them to bed and so on. I also thought about how to break up with those I had already bored with and how I could hide one from another when I had more than one girlfriend (unofficially usually) at the same time. But now, I only think about what I should plan for my family and how I can have my plan worked. I think about what I can do when Shino is pregnant and how I can soothe her when she is down and so on. I think about what kind of education my children should go for and what I can hope for them, and from them as well.
You see, so much of changes, so much of differences. My life after married are full of challenge and commitment. So much things to plan, so many issues to worry about. If I don’t think about the issues doesn’t mean it will not come to me one day. I have no way to run away from it, and I don’t plan to too. I see these as a progress, as a development, and I will accept it with an open heart, together with Shino.
Shino’s sister said this to me before:-
“I think Bell will lose all her privilege when you have your own child.”
I agree with her, but I think I will still love Bell as much as I do now. Of course, I will love my own ‘Bell’ more than her Bell. Hahaa…
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eat more meat if you want a boy, and more vege if you want a girl. it shld be the opposite for Shino and GOOD LUCK !!!!!!!
dont know for real one or not this vader.
of course la, check out my post on making a baby girl :
http://imaginepeace.wordpress.com/2007/02/14/lets-make-a-baby-girl-this-valentine/
vad3r,
hahaa… I heard about that before, thanks for the info anyway!!
claudine,
it seems like you have a lot to learn from this hamsap vad3r
Niasing changd man that’s why we can ask that hot chick price last tim…
Eh you know that hot chick we saw the other day,SHE’S on DRUGS!!!!!
I heard that from my resources!!!
I mean we can’t**
eh so gam dong T_T
i also belle ma! love me la!
suk suk i wan shopping!
pookyma,
she’s on drug?? Wow, no wonder drugs can be so popular nowadays. If what you said is true, then I am thinking of getting some drugs to DRUG the girls. Damn it, the girl on that night was damn fucking HOT… HOT!! I just can’t get her out of my mind!!
bulat,
don’t cry baby.
belle,
hahaa… My heart has already occupied by my wife and Bell.
hm.. unke tiu wish u luck first ar.. kekeke..
seriously, ur weekend will never be the same again after ur baby is born.
It’s very thoughtful of you to think of your wife, the language, the education and etc.. but hor the most important to think about is MONEY wei… no money.. kereta tak jalan wei… kekeke…
janice,
I don’t think of money because money is already not an issue for me. Ehh… Not very rich, but got a steady income and some savings.
dun care lar. boy or gal.
janji the baby got ass can already.
frostier,
no ass also nevermind, janji got chi gu ding can liao!!
hm.. good.. wei .. chi gu ding really so important meh ????
janice,
of course it’s important. Without it, how can my son fucks??
yeah,
chi gu ding really important. No ass at least won’t be fuck by some freaking ass hole fuckers.
Hahaha…
Tommy Chieng,
does that mean, it’s better to be born without ass?? :O