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It’s getting closer and closer…
By Tiuniasing | October 5, 2007
I think most of you have misunderstood of what I’ve written in my previous post. Actually Shino is not pregnant yet, but we have started working on it. We are preparing to have a baby, so both of us have to work together to make sure everything will go smoothly, hopefully. This is what we called, preparation.
As a husband, I do change my lifestlye prior to my wife pregnancy. I used to take warm water shower as I usually take shower very late, in the midnight most of the time. Let’s say I have a basketball match which starts at 9pm, the game ends at 10pm something. Then I follow the team for dinner and drinking session, and the earliest that I can leave is 12am. So when I come home, it is about 1am and it is my time for shower. Because of this reason, I have to take warm water shower in order not to catch cold. I have no choice.
But since last two weeks ago, I have stopped taking warm water shower. According to some books about pregnancy that I read before, the chances of fertilization is higher if the man don’t take warm water shower because our sperms will die in high temperature. So I always keep myself cold and cool now. I am okay with cold water as long as I don’t take my shower in the midnight.
Also, I have stopped my social-smoking for a few weeks already, requested by Shino. Although I do not quite agree with Shino that the quality of sperms will be affected due to smoking, but what to do. Shino wants me to stop temporarily, I will just obey just to comfort her. I’ve argued with Shino before regarding this issue. I told her that my dad is a heavy smoker, and he could produce such a good quality son (I am talking about myself). So it’s proven that men smoking will not affect the quality of baby. Furthermore, I just smoke regularly, I smoke when I am with smokers only. Same goes to alcohols.
But it is another story when comes to women to smoke and drink. The women are giving an environment in their stomach. So it is very important that they can keep the environment clean and fresh without being polluted by smoke and alcohol. A little alcohol is acceptable and it is good for health also. I know, it is unfair to the women but what to do. The nature works this way, we will just follow. If I have a pair of huge and solid boobs, I am willing to take up the job of breast-feeding. But too bad I don’t have!! Hahaa…
As for Shino, she has been taking folic acid since 3 months ago, and also some supplements which claims to be good for the sake of pregnancy. In the yesterday post, I wrote there that we went for pre-pregnancy test which means we needed to do a test to make sure everything is ready before Shino gets pregnant. We discussed about to get a baby boy first, or a baby girl; We discussed about what kind of education we will give to our children in the future, and many many things. It’s really getting closer and closer…
p/s :: I am in a rush now. I will reply your comments after this!!
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Cheh… hou potong stim wor, tai lou…
But good luck anyway!
All the best to the well-prepared daddy! Cheers.
fren… i dont belif in changes. My hubby smoke whn i m preggie.. no comment on the cold water lah .. cos my hub dun like warm bath..
as long as u dun tense urself.. everything will be fine.. shot and got !!.. kekeke..
good luck in trying ler.. hm.. it’s amazed whn u touch a preggie tummy..
shun qi zi ran lar. feel so weird u need to purposely ‘prepare’ to ‘mempregnantkan someone’.juz make sure u r mentally and economically ready, then other things juz wait for the ‘natural calls’ lo.healthy lifestyle shud be practised all the while one mar. now onli change u think lei dak qit meh.weird.some medical check up shud be done b4 u get married one mar…like for certain couples they will sure produce xxx kinda child bla bla bla…and hor, dun tell me u discuss which color ur child shud like, which step ur child will 1st make (left or right), which job he/she shud do in the future arr..tht’s scary.
All the hoo-haa over ur baby, and it turned out to be hoax!! Cheh, u memang tak boleh pakai!
Hit the jackpot soon!!!!
6 HUP CHOI might be easier thn having babies lol
anyway good luck!!!!
thought got edi so when
i heard if you really want to quit smoking for pregnancy, you have to quit at least one or two years to get it out of your system. which means, temporary quit doesn’t work actually. it applies to both men and women.
also, i’ve seen my aunt’s cousin who smokes a pack a day during pregnancy, the baby comes out perfectly normal.
same goes with drugs. i heard one of a friend’s friend didn’t know that she’s pregnant for 5 month(because she’s big size), she took drugs during that 5 months. after she knew she was pregnant, she stopped. the baby comes out healthy as well. but a lil hyperactive.
but of course prevention is always the best thing before pregnancy.
sei 4, need to do so many things for preparation one meh -_____-”. Then I also go and starts to prepare myself lar..
Good luck to you ~! Then u become papa tiu. LOL.
angel,
ehh… You never read properly leh, blame me pulak!!
Tommy Chieng,
thanks, thank you!!
janice,
nothing is impossible to me, and I’ve created some amazing stuff for Shino!! She knows it best!! Hehee…
qing,
I stopped smoking in front of my wife just for her good sake, to reduce the chances of her sucking 2nd hand smoke, to provide a healthier environment for the mother and the baby. Not for my sperm quality because I don’t believe by smoking will drop the quality of sperms, quantity perhaps. We will see…
If I don’t have anything about my future kids’s future to talk, where the hell do I have something to blog about here?? Hehee…
yumsup,
you didn’t read properly leh, I wrote the pre-pregnancy test wor!!
pookyma,
yes, will hit, will hit!!
belle,
sure or not?? Then I must bet on 6 hap choi lah when I am trying on baby. Hahaa…
mochii,
you never read properly!!
When?? Working on it now, still trying…
dy,
I think the risk probability is not 100% but it surely is higher than the normal people, if we take drugs and smoke like a chimney. I mean, we must do all we can to reduce the risk and prevent something unfortunate to happen throughout the process.
babyfiona,
Hahaa… I thought you plan to give up on baby after knowing so many things for preparation tim!!
shannon,
call me tiu yeh!!
aww…u wan baby boy or girl? girl better!!!!!!!!! hehehehhe
so nice u stopped smoking..everytime i tell my bf to stop..i end up smoking..blood boil till head..haih
huei,
I hope to get a baby boy first, so that my next one can be a baby girl who has a BIG brother to jaga!!
6 months stop smoking and drinking liao oni will have effect on the sperm quality de…the sperm which u spurt out now is produced 6 months ago..so if u stop for a few months wont have any effect on the DNA de..u smoke den ur son will most probably smoke..haha
Mutu,
maybe a little bit of nicotine is good for baby, who knows!!??