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One year ago…
By Tiuniasing | November 2, 2007
Have you ever thought of the past?? Do you know what you were doing exactly one year ago??
For me, the past one year is the most important year in my life, at least until this point of time if not forever. It was not something like I could slam-dunked last time but I can’t now; It was not because of I am earning two times much more than I was before; It was not because I had a long hair but I don’t now. There are more than that…
One year ago, I was still single and I could go out to date any girl at any time I liked to, and I could sleep with any girl at any night I wanted to!! So fucking free, so fucking free!! And now, like what the Chinese say, no such song to sing already (mou gam geh gor zai cheong jor), just because of one decision that I made, just because of one action that I took, that I would not have a chance to regret to… It is to drop my signature on the marriage certificate.
Today, one year later, not a very long time but we have been through so much and so much, so much that I couldn’t write it out here. But Shino and I know all of those, everything and everything that we had, the bitter and the sweet, it will be with us till we die. Yes, you read it right, the bitter and the sweet, we had it both. But it doesn’t matter actually because having bitter moments once in a while isn’t a bad thing. For me, I would call those as, one step forward in a relationship.
Many people think that a relationship shouldn’t have any bitter moment as it will merely or seriously destroy the relationship, but I don’t think so. A relationship is like our tongue, a tongue which can taste any kind of tastes. Imagine, if our tongue isn’t able to taste any bitter, do you think it is good?? Without the bitter, could you actually differenciate what sweet is, and what bitter is?? I bet you don’t even know what sweet is, if there is no bitter anymore. Okay, I am talking cock here!!
I knew, I knew I will get married one day. It was just a matter of time only. Finally, I have already married, and I am still rocking here, I am still blogging here. Before I came to this stage, I had lotsa dreams, a lot of hopes, and a lot of fantasy about marriage!! But, after I’ve got here, everything turned out to be so differently, to a better way of course!! For instance, I thought I must have to do A, do B and do C, then only I can come out with D. In fact, things work out so automatically to get D. I don’t need to do anything. It’s like breathing, we don’t need to know how the lungs work but we can breathe without any problem. We do not need pump our heart or lungs, we just inhale and exhale automatically. It seems like everything has been set and timed, and both Shino and I are the executers, to get things run only.
Our first anniversary is just around the corner. I am writing this post specially dedicated to my wife, to let her know that I didn’t forget our anniversary day:-
Dear, remember the moment before we went for registration?? We planned what to wear, what to bring… The first time we went to Putrajaya to apply for registration, we were asked some funny questions by the Malay lady officer. You asked me to keep the receipt as you said you’re forgetful, you worried that you would have lost the receipt and consequently we wouldn’t be able to register on the registration day. I still remember that I went to the florist early in the morning, to get you the hand boutique that I had ordered earlier for our registration. You asked your colleagues to witness our registration, and I asked mine too. With so many people blessing, I believe we will be together forever, and we will have our lovely children too. About one year ago… I love you much much more than one year ago…
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Hmm.. Uncle tiu become so sweet.. Your lou por must be very sayang you..
happy 1st anniversary!!! and good luck with the baby chase
Awwwww…. so sweet. Cant resist myself but to write a comment. I wish you and your wife live happily ever after with new members adding into the picture in the future
cheh..got some music pulak while reading this..soon i’ll join u in family-hood…
nice one.. =] everything you conveyed..makes sense.
witout bitter, we will never appreciate sweetness..might don even know wats sweet.
i totally don agree there should be no bitter moments in a relationship.
argument for example, happens because you care..if there is no argument..i dunno wat kind of relationship is that..
with ups and dowwn…a relationship will go alot stronger..
tiu…forever and ever…
CHEERS =]
Belle
-i love you much much more than one year ago-
really good =] almost burst out my tears T T
Tiu, dun lie !!! It’s better to let ppl know how truly u regret the whole thing. LoL .. just kidding.
Rit,
of course she sayang me, otherwise why I married to her??
TBG,
thank you, thank you!!
Princess Eileen,
thans, thanks a lot!!
kraken,
say goodbye to your bachelorhood, and welcome to lou chan group!!
belle,
hopefully the bitternesses are lesser than the sweet moments!!
Almost burst your tears?? Hehee… I thought you almost burst everything in your mouth tim!!
yumsup,
hello, very funny meh?? Be supportive lah. So you bila kahwin??
yumsup LOl!!!!! AHAHAHHA
belle,
ehh… Emm!!
wat song is dis la uncle tiu?
makin me cry laaaaa
Ryan,
the song-title is “At The End Of The Day” by Emi Fujita. You can download it here.
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