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The most wonderful moment - 2
By Tiuniasing | January 13, 2008
…The feeling of excitement of holding hands continued to fantasize me until one day, I didn’t find it anymore special already. Thing can’t stay where it is for too long otherwise everybody will find it boring. Then, holding hands became a routine but not an excitement anymore. It didn’t take very long for me to feel bored with holding hand because it was just holding someone’s hands only.
The second time I found it an amazing when I dealt with women was, when I got a chance to hold the girl in an affectionate embrace, with both of us were locked in a clinch. Before I continue to tell you more, I have to clarify here that the term “girlfriend” I use on my blog, is actually a general term for me, to use as a tag for those girls I have had a relationship with, be it an official or unofficial. My wife, Shino has been educated (by me no doubt) that official girlfriends are refering to those girls I have had sex with and I have brought them home to introduce to my folks.
As for those whom I have slept with before but have never introduced to anyone in my family, I would categorize them as unofficial girlfriends. There were a few times where I brought the girls home and accidentally we were caught by my folks in the middle of the night. In this case, I won’t say they were my official girlfriends because I did not actually properly intorduce them to my folks at that moment because I got shocked too when I saw my mum came out of her room. Most of the time I was trapped by my mum. I thought she was in her sweetdream but I was wrong. In fact, she was hiding in her room and waiting for me to come home. If she heard some girl’s voice, she would come out just as she was so fucking curious which girl I was dating with then.
When I got caught, I would stay calmly, and steadily greeted:-
“Mum, why still awakening in this wee hours??”
“Pee!!”
“But your room has a bath…”
“None of your business.”
Anyway, it ended up with I held the girls to my room, locked the door and had fun in the room like no others knew about that. Ehh… Where am I now?? Hahaa… I was supposingly to tell you about my wonderful moment but it ended up with I am telling how I define official and unofficial girlfriends.
When you’re hugging a girl whom you are fancy to, it is totally a different kind of feeling compare to the moment when you hug your pals in the airport who’s leaving the country for studies. In the airport, you will only hug your pals and greet them to take care and goodbye, that’s it. But when it comes to your dating partners, you have more to do. A simple hug is definitely not enough because you could be blamed for not loving and caring them enough. I am a guy, so I am writing this on a male’s point of views undoubtedly. I will tell you how a man thinks when they are doing all this, I will tell you in the next chapter, stay tuned!!
Topics: Life |
haha…good post…
eh don blend everyman into yr stereotype hor!!
all my bf are unofficials b4 this my ex and this bf coz i don even bother to let my parents know..coz i know im gonna dump them in no time lol
haha ur mom is so cheeky hahah
alamak… my bf intro me to his family but we did not have sex la…so wat am i? oficial or unofficial? But her mum thinks dat i’m gonna be her daughter in law liao…
Neway, I’m waiting for ur next post!
pookyma,
more to come, more to come!!
belle,
wow, I like your style. This is what I called… LOVE!!
mochi,
yes, she is…
littlepolaris,
for me, I would call that as the official-unofficial-girlfriend.
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