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New generation education, how to manage your wife and your own parents
By Tiuniasing | July 15, 2008
Today, there are still so many rules that works fucking unfair to women, especially in some less-developed countries such as Sri Lanka, India, Afganiztan and so on. Well, some countries which claimed to be more-developed such as Iran and Iraq, ain’t any better than the less-developed countries. In some countries, the suspects of rape cases could be charged only if there are at least 4 witnesses in the cases. Damn, who the hell will be so fucking stupid to ask 4 sohai to witness a rape case?? If you are a rapist, will you invite your friends to see your animal-action??
Our world is moving towards the brighter side I would say. Laws in most of the countries are tended to protecting the women from being the victim of the unfair status. Laws is one thing, but our thoughts is another thing. I have to admit that most men still do not understand how to be fair to women. I can easily find anyone in my friend’s network who still thinks that women must do this and that just because they are women. Seriously, I am not happy with all this and I am doing all I can to educate my friends, from the wrong to the right. Let’s read the conversation below:-
1:47:44 PM Ah Leong :: how’s life man?
1:47:55 PM Tiuniasing :: life is kinda busy, busy with work.
1:48:07 PM Ah Leong :: Andy somewhat hinted that you also got marriage problem like him ah?
1:48:09 PM Ah Leong :: sigh
1:48:28 PM Tiuniasing :: no la… me dun have la.
1:48:38 PM Tiuniasing :: i dunno what problem he has… i never ask.
1:48:44 PM Ah Leong :: ehehe
1:48:52 PM Ah Leong :: he sounded so sad 
depressed
1:48:56 PM Ah Leong :: ehe
1:49:03 PM Tiuniasing :: now i can’t date girls like how i did last time. perhaps that’s the problem i have.
1:49:36 PM Tiuniasing :: oh issit?? he sounded depressed?? i thought he is kinda pressure of his own business??
1:49:56 PM Ah Leong :: not only business pressure lah
1:50:05 PM Ah Leong :: family matters also give him pressures
1:50:09 PM Ah Leong :: eheheh
1:50:17 PM Ah Leong :: last time you always dated different girls meh?
1:50:25 PM Tiuniasing :: used to la…
1:50:34 PM Tiuniasing :: family matter?? you mean anne issit?? (Anne is Andy’s wife)
1:50:59 PM Ah Leong :: yeah
1:51:02 PM Ah Leong :: he said
1:51:14 PM Ah Leong :: Anne not putting much effort in the family
1:51:52 PM Tiuniasing :: it’s difficult for anne… she is new in the family, she takes time to get used to it.
1:52:13 PM Ah Leong :: may be
1:52:15 PM Ah Leong ::
1:52:24 PM Tiuniasing :: i think andy shouldn’t have expected too much from anne.
1:52:31 PM Ah Leong :: well dated so long with andy
1:52:37 PM Ah Leong :: still so difficult meh?
1:53:04 PM Tiuniasing :: it is 2 different things.
1:53:18 PM Ah Leong :: hehe yeah
1:53:28 PM Ah Leong :: but shouldn’t have much gap
1:53:36 PM Ah Leong :: they have known each other for so long
1:54:03 PM Tiuniasing :: last time, no matter how.. andy always knew that anne was a girlfriend only… but now, she is a wife oredi. the expectation will change.
1:54:49 PM Ah Leong :: yeah
1:55:01 PM Tiuniasing :: as for me, i won’t expect anything from my wife… just let thing goes as it may.
1:55:04 PM Ah Leong :: anne should be more committed also lah
2:13:42 PM Tiuniasing :: give her some time…
2:13:46 PM Ah Leong :: ahahaa
2:13:50 PM Ah Leong :: come on lah
2:13:57 PM Ah Leong :: how old is she? 29 leh
2:14:05 PM Tiuniasing :: not the age problem.
2:14:08 PM Ah Leong :: should be more matured and more ready to start a family
2:14:16 PM Tiuniasing :: but the amount of time that she spends in the new family.
2:14:53 PM Ah Leong :: hmm
2:14:57 PM Tiuniasing :: if today, the world works the other way around where we guys have to marry to the girls’ family… you try to imagine this.
2:15:02 PM Ah Leong :: your wife also had the same problem?
2:15:06 PM Tiuniasing :: can you get used to the new life easily??
2:15:17 PM Ah Leong :: ahahaah
2:15:27 PM Ah Leong :: may be can
2:15:29 PM Ah Leong :: may be cannot
2:15:32 PM Tiuniasing :: i think she is fine with it because my parents are quite open in this.
2:15:39 PM Ah Leong :: ok
2:15:53 PM Tiuniasing :: and i understand that well.. i always put myself in her shoes.
2:16:09 PM Tiuniasing :: so, i think the girls need more time to get used to the new life.
2:16:36 PM Ah Leong :: ohh
2:16:36 PM Ah Leong :: ok
I really hope that all men can think for the women on this. It is not a simple thing to start a new life in a new family. If you are staying with your parents, please be more matured when dealing with this. Put yourself in your wife’s shoes and you will know that she has compromised so much for the marriage and for you. Make her happy is your main task now, make her feel happy and comfortable staying with your parents is the most important thing for you. You need to educate your parents if they don’t think this way otherwise you will be suffering too. You will become the sandwich between your wife and your parents, which I think you hardly can satisfy both sides. Education is the key here…
Topics: Life |
your wife is sure lucky to have an understanding hubby like you
chipmunk,
I wanna make her the happiest woman in the world!!