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New Year of Tiuniasing
By Tiuniasing | February 1, 2009
Practically. it has been approximately one month since the last update of this blog, it is quite a long break, long enough for you to forget my name, Tiuniasing.
I was not breathing without anything happened within the one month break. There had been too many things came up to me, it was one of the toughest part in my life. I couldn’t share it with you here because they were too personal to be revealed. But fortunately, those were the past and I have successfully gotten rid of all of it. I am feeling fresh now, I feel like I have been reborn. You do not need to ask me about it, I would greatly appreciate it if you can wish me a good year ahead of me.
After going through the tough time, I have a new view about my life. I had deeply thought about what I want to achieve in the year of bull, about my family and the family plan, my objectives and goals of life, and missions aiming the goals to be accomplished, about my career, my hobbies and interests, about the presently hit global economy crisis and steps to get rid of, about what I am chasing for from the world of blogs, about how I can contribute to the society and how I can help the unfortunate ones to live in a better way, and many many more.
From my observation, people can be categorised into three groups in terms of the level of their wealthiness. The first group are those who are damn fucking rich, who drive the luxury continental cars or the fully handcrafted super sport car, and their wrists are buckled up by the watches a few times more expensive than your dearly sedan. You visit papaya farms occasionally (usually the day you receive your paycheck), they visit Bintang Palace Exclusive Nightclub daily (usually after their dinner, sometimes after their supper), Bintang Palace is their second home. If you want to meet those who are from this group, you can meet them at Bintang Palace or Club De Vegas.
The second group are those who live their normal life and this group comprise 90% of of the population. Unfortunately, yours truly is fell under this group. You and I are categorised in this group, so do I need to write more about it?? You and I know well about this group. The last group are those who do not even have a normal and simple life. Probably you can call them the unfortunate ones, or some of them deserved to be in this group because of their attitude and mentality. The unfortunate ones are those who live within the war zone, those who are born either physically or mentally disabled, those who have been human-trafficked or forcefully with their limbs being chopped off to become beggars, you name it.
My first objective of life is undoubtedly to live a better life. What do I mean by to live a better life?? In the simplest way, I am aiming to join the first group where I can pong chan Club De Vegas or I can go to Tin Siong Yan Gan (Bintang Palace) to gan yan siong tin everynight. I am no kidding, how I wish I am a regular customer to the most exclusive nightclubs in town, though I occasionally go there with some bosses, bill on them.
To aim is easy, but not for to hit. I do not know when I can achieve my objectives, but I think I must at least have objectives or targets, so that everything that I do or practice everyday is aiming the objective and targets, this could help to reduce redundancy or to avoid from getting lost unintentionally.
Once the objectives and targets are set, the next thing is to have a good attitude. For me, attitude is the most important key to success. With a good attitude, we are able to face all the obstacles ahead of us positively. I realised that for whatever negative things that we see or whatever problems that we come across, we can have more than one thoughts about it. When something negative come to us, usually or automatically people will see it negatively. This happens to most people and I think it is not a good attitude. For me, I am a very positive person. I always choose to be positive in whatever good or bad things that come to me because I know I can make the choice, I am the one who choose to face the problems with either a negative or positive view and heart. Without a doubt, a positive heart is the way to go. I fucking realised that no matter what heart you choose, you will have to face the obstracles and if that is the case, why do we not choose to face it positively??
The tough time that I had gone through, I felt thankful that I chose to be positive in facing it. I had been so positive and optimistic that that had surprised my wife, my parents and my family members. None of my friends know about it as I did not share it with them, I think things will get more difficult and messy if there are more people to be involved in it. I do not believe in any unnecessary sources, I just believe what I believe and if I am not clear with something, I will just leave it to those who have enough knowledge and profession to decide for me, I believe in them, I believe the professional’s profession.
I am one year older now. At the age of 31, basketball is not something I should have fate in. I am not saying that I am not fit for this sport, but I think there should be an end for everything in our life, including our life too. I still can play better than the young people if I want to, but seriously do I need to be better than them?? What do I get from playing good basketball now?? Okay, frankily I get something, I get a few hundreds ringgit allowance for every tournament that I play in. A few hundred could mean something to me a few years back, but not for now. A few hundred ringgit could buy me a new pair of Nike basketball shoes but a new pair of basketball shoes is not synchronised with my objectives of life. So I chose to drop it.
It is very fair to say that everyone of us have 24 hours only, be you rich or poor. In order to pick up something new, I have to drop something old. Since I have chosen to play lesser basketball (it will be something for sweating only), I have decided to pick up golf. I have some friends who go for driving range and golf course regularily, I will join them for my new hobby after this. The first thing that I need to do is to get my own golf bag, and probably trade in my present car for a bigger car which can fit in the massive golf bag. I have to start to forget about Michael Jordan or Kobe Bryant, I have to read more about Tiger Woods. I just realised that the old Michael Jordan does not have his own official website, but Kobe and Woods have theirs. Michael is an old man…
By the way, mentioning about sport, I have recently created a Formula One blog to share my knowledge and views about this sport. See you Formula One fans there!!
Topics: Life |
good luck for your resolution all the best, nothing worths more than precious family’s supports when thing falls apart. A better year ahead tiu. Never forgets u =]
belle,
thanks for your wishes. I pray 2009 is a better year for you and your family, and may all your dreams will come true!!